Goodbye Buzz

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Some of you may recall that I posted about six weeks ago that my cat, Buzz, was diagnosed with lymphatic cancer. At the time, Bonnie and I agreed that any treatments had to provide him with a good quality of life - we didn't want to put Buzz through excessive treatments that would extend his life at the cost of quality.

 

The chemo treatments have bought several weeks of excellent quality of life for Buzz but we've now reached the end of that road - we were hopeful for at least a few months of reasonable quality of life but due to the aggressiveness of his disease, all of the remaining treatment options involve long hours of chemo and the insertion of feeding tubes. To put him through such treatments would be nothing less than selfish on my part. So we've had to make the difficult decision to put Buzz to sleep.

 

I sometimes feel silly for making such a big deal out of all this. I don't consider myself to be an “animal nut“ - just someone who enjoys pets. Making this decision about any pet is difficult but Buzz is 1 in a 1,000,000 for me. I've had many pets over the years but I've had a bond with Buzz like no other. I know we'll carry on with life and that we'll have other pets but I sure am gonna miss this guy.

 

Goodbye Buzz...


Posted Jun 27 2007, 08:38 AM by jim-wilson

Comments

Shannon Ahern wrote re: Goodbye Buzz
on 06-27-2007 8:56 AM
Oh, I am so sorry for your loss, Jim. I dread ever having to make this decision, as our Spooky gets older. Your post reminded me of a blog post from March that really touched me. Maybe you'll like it, or not, but I hope so.

http://www.occams-razor.info/2006/03/requiem_for_a_feline.html

Buzz is just beautiful and I am happy you had him in your life. You are NOT making a big deal out of it, because our pets really fill a place in our hearts that is unique. You should grieve as you see fit, without shame.
*hugs*
Kuzma wrote re: Goodbye Buzz
on 06-27-2007 9:08 AM
Jim, I am sorry to hear that Buzz's life ended this week. Please accept my sincere sympathy on the passing of your dear friend.
Glen Gordon wrote re: Goodbye Buzz
on 06-29-2007 1:33 PM
So sorry about Buzz, I remember your kind words over IM when I had to go through the same with my cat months ago. Take care Jim.
Jim Wilson wrote re: Goodbye Buzz
on 07-02-2007 7:25 AM
Shannon, Kuzma, Glen;

Thank you very much for your kind words and support. It really means a lot.

Thank you!!
Jim Wilson wrote re: Goodbye Buzz
on 07-02-2007 7:28 AM
Kuzma;

Can you email me when you get a chance?

I had to repave my machine and didn't get all of my contacts backed up.

As a result, I lost your most recent email address.

I look forward to hearing from you.

-Jim

Greg Robinson wrote re: Goodbye Buzz
on 07-02-2007 12:05 PM
I am sorry for your loss.

Our pets are like our kids and when we lose one we are lost. We just lost the 2nd of 4 dogs and I think about him every day. Our oldest is now suffering from aggressive cancer and doe snot have many days left. Our pets cannot talk to us, which sometimes makes it worse.

Hopefully my blog links below will help you out, see that it's OK to have this kind of love and affection for your pets.

http://dotnetrocks.blogspot.com/2007_04_08_dotnetrocks_archive.html

http://dotnetrocks.blogspot.com/2007_03_18_dotnetrocks_archive.html
Jim Wilson wrote re: Goodbye Buzz
on 07-03-2007 7:07 AM
Greg;

Thank you for your kind words. As you describe, the love of a pet is something special - I appreciate the links and your encouragement.

The loss of Buzz was really heartbreaking for us and I sometimes wondered if taking the death of a pet so hard was a reasonable reaction. Thank you for sharing your feelings and showing that there are many of us who feel this way about our pets.

I'm very sorry to hear about the illness of your oldest and the recent passing of Camden. I can't imagine the pain that you and Amy experienced during that difficult evening.

Our pets give us so much love, we just want to take care of them and as you know, it hurts so much when something happens to them and we are unable to do anything to help them.

Thanks again, Greg.

Jim

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